Thoughts
Visa Breakthrough after 12 years
Today the most incredible thing happened, I finally got my long-term visa, and I still cannot believe it. It has been a burden for 12 long long years, and honestly, I gave up on the Read more…
Thoughts
Starting over at 30
Hitting 30 was such a curve ball, one that I could have never predicted at the start of my 20s.For some obscure reason, I imagined myself getting serious at 28, having already met my life Read more…
Self Growth
Life Checks
I remember growing up hearing from my parents about distant relatives suddenly going crazy, and wondered how does that even happen? I mean, if you are a regular person with a regular life it seems Read more…
Psychology
Dealing with Gaslighting
There is something about showers that makes your brain go into creative mode, maybe it’s the gentle feeling of water droplets falling on your skin, or maybe it’s one of the few moments when we’re Read more…
Thoughts
A letter to the future
A few years ago, I followed a middle-aged man on YouTube that realized he probably won’t be around by the time his son would turn 20. A fragile age for every young man, when we Read more…
Thoughts
They are not your friends
I just got a reality check a few days ago, I got called into the office and was informed on my last day of probation that they were letting me go. No prior notice in Read more…
Thoughts
Systems for a better Self
Sometimes I feel that there is more than one you, like you act differently on different occasions, almost to the point as if you were a different person. One of my recurring thoughts has been Read more…
Self Growth
Stop Overthinking, Just Show Up
Aaaah Overthinking, we all do it, but where does it come from and how do we stop it?Those are the two questions that have been running through my head in the past few weeks, and Read more…
Self Growth
Solo Birthday
Solo Birthdays feel weird when don’t have plans. People you know expect you to throw a party and get crazy, but for some sometimes just feel like having a chill dayaway from the stress of Read more…